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We messed around and did everything but. Now I'm scared!

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Question - (9 January 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi!

im 17 and still a virgin but new years morning i was at my boyfriends house and we started messing around we did everything but _____ . after taking both our clothes off i asked him to put a _____ on and he did then began rubbing his _____ around the ouside of me. then he took if off and by the time he got it off i was completly dry but his ______ was still rubbing against the lip of my _____ , about 5 min after i went and took a shower. im pretty sure nothing got on me because i would have felt it if it was wet but im still scared. i have irregular periods so i cant tell if i miss =( i took a pregnancy test the other day it was neg. what should i do now?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2009):

hey buddy

its okay just wait 2 weeks and take the pregnancy test again...even if you throwing up right now it probably because you are paranoyed so calm down and gice it time okay

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A female reader, im_a_dummy United States +, writes (10 January 2009):

im_a_dummy agony aunti totally agree with both those answers, but also i am pregant and my first 3 tests i took were negative, so your best bet if you are truely scared is see a doctor, i ended up taking aobut 24 tests and 9 of them were negative, so it could be the brand you used or sumthing idk, your best bet is having it checked out with the doc tho. good luck xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

hi

chances are you are not pregnant as you have had a negative test result, however, if you still have not had a period within the next few weeks repeat the test.

what compelled me to write a response to your question, i would like to advise you to spend time thinking whether or not you are ready to fool around with a boy? it seems to me that you are not ready to take any steps towards having a sexual relationship as you can not say the names of the pasrts of the body or the word sex. please wait until you are 100% comfortable with even just playing around before you move onto the next level.

hope everything works out for you x

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A male reader, Aech135 United States +, writes (9 January 2009):

Aech135 agony auntYou're probably fine but if your that worried you could try waiting a few days and retake the pregnancy test or go to the doctor and have them check you out. I'm sure there are some other suggestions but as i'm not female i've never really thoroughly researched ways of checking if your pregnant.

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