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male
age
36-40,
*ashid
writes:Hi i ve got a simple question.. My gf is not able to give me a blow job. Whenever we try for it she gets prob wit her breathin. My cock is just 5 inches.. Not tat big to choke her.. Its like she sucks my cock for 30 sec then pauses to catch her breath for 2 min. This ruins the fun associated wit it and i lose interest. We hav sex without much problems.. Could anyone suggest ways to make it possible for her to give me a blow job? Thanks in advance..
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (9 January 2009):
tell her not to put the whole thing into her mouth. us women are not porn stars, we can't suck the whole thing. they don't call it a job for nothing, all that gasping, jaw ache and trying to get you men off. it;s hard work!
the best thing to do is for her to use her hands and lick and suck the top, that way it is easier for her to relax and enjoy it. maybe she panics and can't handle putting it into her mouth. maybe she hates doing it and feels uncomfortable doing it. i've come across alot of women who say they don't like giving blow jobs. and they only give to get. tell her to try a different way of doing it.
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reader, SugarCookie  +, writes (9 January 2009):
It sounds more like her mouth hurts tell her to try licking and giving you a hand job when her jaw hurts.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 January 2009):
 It is fairly difficult for a young woman to continue sucking cock indefinitely, but all she likely needs to do is stroke the erection while she takes a short break. She might also add licking from base to tip, and also some licking on the scrotum while she catches her breath. "satindesire" is correct that your woman should be able to take breaths while giving head, but nevertheless, it is understandable that she needs to rest her mouth and jaw occasionally. Similarly, I periodically relax while licking a clitoris by stroking the vulva and clitoris with my thumb and fingers, but maybe that's because I'm an older man now? LOL
Anyway, your girlfriend's actions may involve some kind of reluctance or aversion to performing oral sex. Talk with her about it and be understanding. Are you also satisfying her orally? It should be mutual . . .
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