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writes: I felt in love with this guy since the first day I met him, and then we had a relationship, for more than a year, the problem now is we always break up and make up, because we do really love each other. He dumped me but I know that he still loves me because he calls me and we talk for even more than half an hour, I know he wants me back and I want him back, but I don't want to be the one to ask him back, what should I do? cauz everyday of my life, I always think about him. Reply to this Question
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 Hi
You are constantly looking for reassurance from him, thats whats happening here. You want him to chase you. Not unusual so dont beat yourself up about it! But if you do it for too long, the guy will get fed up and quit for good. And that will have nothing to do with the fact he doesn't love you (which you will inevitably tell yourself because its what you are expecting)
You need more self asteem and realise for good, this guy loves you and be more of a partnership than enemies.
C xxxxx
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reader, growing  +, writes (9 May 2008):
 I am sure that one of you will soon pop up this question .Can't say who will be that.But this will happen.untill and unless one of you get involve in another relationship.
So there is no need to right some long answer. this is the conclusion.
Me telling you get over him or tell him you want him back will just be cliche and impractical here.
Its certain that you won't and can't follow this in this scene.
So just wait for him getting into a gal or you meeting sum1 new.
Till that keep talking and suffering.
I can understand you but can't really help.
Try to recall the reasons that trigers off your on and off break ups and then ...
Be practical in your approach towards life.
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