A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend and i have broken up and gotten together 2 times and i really do love him! We broke up the first time because he just use to flirt too much to an extent that he didnt even notice himself! 2nd time was because i went overseas for about 3 months and we always use to speak but then we just stopped and it ended and he was pretty upset. my friend told me and now he wants me back...But i dont know what to say because he talks to girls on facebook regularly and it bothers me but i dont want to say anything. Help?
View related questions:
broke up, facebook, flirt Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, Honeypie +, writes (16 November 2010):
So why do you keep taking him back? You KNOw he will do it again.. and again......
A
male
reader, dirtball +, writes (16 November 2010):
No point in getting back together. Make up/Break up relationships rarely work out in the long run. It's possible to love someone but not be right for eachother.
...............................
A
female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (16 November 2010):
Well some people are just naturally flirty and they dont even realise they are doing it. Its normal for a guy to chat to females on facebook, he is entitled to have female friends as much as male friends and am afraid that if you want to get back with him then you are going to have to accept that its who he is, you cant change him and if you try you will only lose him for good.
So if you want things to work tell him but mention to him that he cant always be flirting so much with girls as it makes you feel insecure, tell him he is entitled to talk and have female friends but that the flirting is going a little bit to far. Goodluck.
...............................
|