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male
age
30-35,
*hangi
writes:I'm dating a girl who has a bad history, she did tell me everything about her past she also told me that she has changed and that she wants to be with me forever but i'm struggling to trust her and i end up hurting myself and her too. Whenever she's not with me i always ask myself what if she is cheat, what if she is doing this and that, she once asked me, why am i always negative when it comes to our relationship i told her that it's because of her and she never replied now she hardly visit me i only see her once or twice a week at school, she acts as if she doesn't miss me and she no longer treats me the same way she use to when we first dated and what hurts the most is she acts as if she doesn't need me i'm the one who need her. How can i change all that and make thing go back to where they where when first dated?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (16 November 2010):
 Well you need to sort out your self before committing in to this relationship again, just because she had a bad history doesnt mean you cant trust her. Her past is her business and you should never have let it come in between you both, she now knows that you dont trust her and that would have hurt her to hear that from you therefore she is getting on with her life as if you never exsisted.
You need to be capable of trusting her before you try and get things back on track or it will never work out. Apologise to her and tell her that you realise now that she never done anything to YOU to make you doubt her and that you are sorry and lets just hope she gives you a second chance.
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