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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 July 2010):
At his age, more than likely. (I'm assuming he is also in his 50's)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 July 2010):
At his age, more than likely. (I'm assuming he is also in his 50's)
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 I don't know much about the situation here, but if he's in his 50's, then his libido will have diminished greatly from its peak thirty years ago. Barring that though, different people have different levels of desire and while some would want twice a day, others would want twice a week. The best I can say is to talk to him about what you want and try to compromise.
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reader, Angelo de Ocasa  +, writes (18 July 2010):
It depends... Sex by its nature is a really good healer of stress and psychological disorders. But every-night sex can make (especially the male) feel exhausted. Also, if he doesn't want to, make him want to. On the other hand i can give you a really useful advice. Spending too much time being together with someone kills the love that had grown between you and that person. Don't rush things and let yourself explore each other time by time. There will always be passion and love.
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2010): Just let it be... but if you are Christian (i can't say that's me) it is written in the bible that when the one partner needs sex the other shouldn't refuse... but hell no. You don't have to ask him. If he don't want to just make him want to... ;)
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reader, karen1989 +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Yes this is normal, however if your newly weds and he doesnt want to have sex at all then this may be a problem.
Every night is a bit much though.
Karen.
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (18 July 2010):
 How often did you have sex before you were married?
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reader, Georgiebbb  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 it is normal not everyone wants sex every night.....
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