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writes:I really like my boyfriend, but when we go to kiss I get so nervous, maybe its becuase i'm not experienced with kissing or anything and he is. So when we kiss i just keep my mouth closed and continue to kiss him and I can feel the tip of his tongue like he wants me to open my mouth but i get sooo nervous and anxious that I can't think straight! What do i do and how do i break this anxiety? I've tried relaxing and letting my mind go blank but it doesnt help.
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reader, karen1989  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 It should just come naturally. let him take the lead and then just go with the flow. RELAX. You trust him right? and you like him? hes not going to laugh at you if you do something wrong. Seriously just relax and go with the flow,don't overanalyze this too much and don't turn it into a chore-enjoy it and be confident :)
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reader, johannabanana +, writes (18 July 2010):
 Well you don't want him to feel like you are shutting him down. Instead of quietly trying to get over your nerves just take the situation head on and simply tell him. Say you feel nervous when kissing him because he has experience and you don't and you don't want to screw up. Changes are he cares about you and will be supportive. Once you tell him the way you feel he can help you not feel that way. I know saying that sounds terrifying but once you do you will feel a lot more comfortable with him.
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