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writes:Every relationship I have been in was terrible. I always got cheated on and left and I don't view myself as a bad person to have that happen to everytime. I guess my question is in every relationship I don't ask for much I'm easy to show you care but I have to teach every guy how to and I don't get why. I appriciate the little things like I would prefer to get fast food and spend dinner at there or my house instead of a fancy dinner. It's just wierd to me like recently I got left for someone that was supposed to b a friend and the first time they went out he took her to go see a movie and never did ne thing close to that for me on his own I had to ask. I just don't get if it's me or not because everytime the next person there with they never cheat and they are so good to them, but I have to ask for it and spell it out to them. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThere not I usually date older guys like the one that I was talking about is 18 and I usually date a couple years older idk y but ya
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2010): I guess maybe that's because you've just taught them! If the guys you're dating are 16-17 like you, then they probably don't have a whole lot of experience with what girlfriends want yet. Since you've just taught them what kinds of things you like them to do, they know what to do next time. And if they often cheat on you, I bet they learn from that mistake and don't want to do it again after seeing how much it hurt you! Over the next year, this frustrating problem should start going away as the guys you meet are a little older and have already started learning some of these lessons :)
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