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We have so much in common--is this pure coincidence?

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Question - (24 March 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2007)
A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Is this pure coincidence?

today i was reading an article about love and dating on the net, on how do you know if someone has feelings for you? As i was reading this, the guy i'm in love with signed on msn.

This has happened before. I have posted a question on here before, and when i was reading my replies, he signed on that day too.

on two sep occassions, i was talking to my cousin on msn, and she was teasing me about him and his mum and that she was going to fone his mum and tell her about me, when he signed on and said he wanted to call me.

He doesnt normally sign on, in fact its very rare.

He doesnt know how i feel at all, in fact we are just friends.

is this pure coincidence, or is it suppposed to mean something?

also, i dreamt that we would send me a long row of kisses, and today he has been doing that.

he told me once what he wants to name his daughter (the name is very rare). it is also what i want to name to mine.

he is the guy i always dreamt of. he are both in the same profession, we both are into similar things, both same religion, and both have a lot of respect for each other.

he always comes to me for support and wants me to know something as soon as he does. but i have no idea, why he wants me know. is it purely coz we good friends or is it coz i mean something to him. i know he tells me things, that he doesnt tell anyone else, but that could just be coz our friendship.

we have a great friendship, and we talk about everything and anything. but we aint been on any dates. we dont have any mutual friends. when we meet, he gives me a hug, we make eye contact and then look away. give each smiles and funny faces. he has tried to hold my hand but then backed off.

neither of us been in a relationship before.

any advice would be great.

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A male reader, nologo Ukraine +, writes (24 March 2007):

nologo agony auntI believe in love at first sight.

Love is like a tree in the desert:

You see it, you come closer to it and it is not always there.

But when it is Love for real, it is something like what you are writing about.

The flame may lessen in time, but you have a great friendship, and it is a plus.

Enjoy being with this guy, enjoy your feelings for him - this is your time, girl!

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