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writes:rite im confused...this boy i really love has really bad mood swings and 1 min hes all over me and tells me he loves me but then the next min he gets stressed easily and screws at me tellin me he hates me ...wat can i do 2 help him and do i love some1 like this?xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (24 March 2007):
 The way you discribed him by his mood swings it sounds to me he may be bi-polar or have ADD attention-deficit disorder, ADHD(attention-deficit-hyperactive-disorder)I have seen several of my friends with this....they get stressed really easy..have mood-swings just as you discribed your bf has. They blirt out words without thinking...and then later on they are eating those words!!
Make a research on it...go to www.google.com and in the search put "add /adhd and relationships". That is what I had to do to understand my friends' behavior.
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reader, Doc Thairish +, writes (24 March 2007):
 I disagree with Livi, if he really felt anything for you then he would'nt say he hates you regardless of what he may be going through. turn the tables for a second, if you was going through a hard time would you tell a person you really care about that you hate them, i think not!you can only help some1 who wants to be helped!!!!!
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
He's probably got a lot of hormones and all that jazz so you have to be understanding and all.
talk to him about how you feel, not haveing a go at him, but telling him he can talk to you about anything, dont feel as though he has to bottle it all up or cover it with a macho exteiror.
Also there could be something else in his life stressing him out, so he doesnt mean to snap at you all the time.
Dont give up hope.
Good luk : D
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