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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We moved in within a week and i lived at his parents house with him up untill a week ago. Things were fine we had slight problems such as i wasnt really allowed out drinking with my friends too much as he felt every guy in the pub was after me. I also was not allowed to wear skirts or any top showing any cleavage. I dealt with this as just over protective. Recently things have been rough. i have had a lot of issue's such as my best friend being in hospital and arguments within my family. We have argued a bit and he also gave me a necklace with i love you engraved on it which i found out was for another girl but he had decided not to give it to her and as he said i deserved to wear it as he loves me. i have not reaccepted the necklace however. He told me last week he needed some space and wanted me to move out. he also said he wasnt sure if he wanted a girlfriend but he still loved me. The next day i did something rather silly and overdosed and jusr got out of hospital. whilst i was in there he told me he did not love me and wanted to split. i asked him to reconsider and he did... things have been rocky since.. one minute all is okay and the next it isnt. He told me last night he didnt want a girlfriend and we both needed to think about it. when i spoke to him this morning he wasnt sure still. about half an hour ago he changed his mind said he loves me and doesnt want to split up. im so confused im not sure what on earth is going on. the last week he got his band up and running and has been practising non stop so i wonder if this is why he didnt want a girlfriend? Also his best friend has said he should not be with me, this to me seems because his girlfriend lives in japan and he doesnt want my boyfriend having someone else to focus on apart from him. they only have each other for friends. he is also in his band. anyone make any sense of this???
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reader, superrrshawna  +, writes (13 August 2008):
 honestly, i'm sorry but it doesn't sound like things are going to work out from what i'm hearing. he sounds overbearing and not sure he wants to be with you. you want to be in a relationship where the guy is dying to be with you and treats you amazing! you don't need constant arguments and ex girlfriend's necklaces. you need someone to support you while you are a rock to your best friend and family! good luck!
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