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writes:hello i am very young and last night lost my virginity i am nervous but i don't no why i loved it but now my boyfriend wants to do it everytime we meat what should i do xxxx baffled beutyxx
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reader, BadAsh6705  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 At your age, you are awfully young to be sexually active! Are you sure you feel comfortable about this? Just don't do anything you don't want to do, don't let your boyfriend decide for you and PLEASE protect yourself! Don't do it without a condom! You don't want to be pregnant now do you?
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reader, gmapeaches +, writes (26 November 2007):
 for the love of god.. 10-12??? You kids have so much more to deal with.. i am sorry you even were put in that position at such an age... you do not do anything you don't want to do.. and jsut because you did it once does not mean you need to be his sex toy.. you can say no.. you don't ever have to do it again.. you make the call.. you decide.. and please use protection.. if you are a old enough girl to have sex then you should be an old enough girl to walk into the store and buy a condom.. how old is this boy? Your same age? its too young to even have a clue what sex is about or what it should mean between two people and i don't mean to talk down to you.. i know you feel like what you feel is real and you feel grown up.. but you have so much time for this stuff... can you talk to your mom? Bottom line if you are asking what you should do.. if someone wants more of you than you can comfortable give.. say no..say thanks but you knwo i am really not ready for this.. i told my daughter that as she grew up and started to date.. that boys were going to try to get her to do things that she didn't want to do.. they would say she was a baby or tell her to grow up that all her friends were.. i told her that she should never let a boy convince her to do something that one day she would meet a boy and be alone with him and want so badly to do those things.. and as long as she could tell me that it was what she wanted i would never be mad at her.. she could always tell me.. it didn't work out for her.. some guy got her drunk.. but she did tell me.. and he did make it right.. i dont know.. just be your own boss.. you probably decide some days not to do your homework.. decide you are not going to have sex unless you want to..
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (26 November 2007):
First of all tell him that it was a big mistake you wish not to repeat.You see now why people will always tell you to wait.Sex is so nice and addictive but you won't handle the stress that comes with it.Like your boyfriend is more addicted than you are.You are too young to start heving sex.Get your mind off it but i know it'll be hard since you've already started but make an effort.If your boyfriend insists on having sex all the time threaten to stop seeing him.If he continues stop spending so much time with him because he'll make you into a sex object and dump you at last.
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reader, hello1 +, writes (26 November 2007):
 You loved it yet your scared too do it again? deep down you know what you did was wrong, that you were too young. I have no ideal why you had sex with your b/f, I don't believe you have peer pressure at your age as kids your age having sex are called names.
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reader, reallyveryconfused +, writes (26 November 2007):
You need to talk to your boyfriend about this. Sex is something very intimate and if you don't feel comfortable enough talking about it with your boyfriend then perhaps you aren't ready to be doing it. If he is worth being with then he will comlpetely understand this and take things more slowly. Good luck and don't worry!
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