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writes: I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 weeks and a couple days, but my feelings for him have faded. At first I liked him alot, we had alot of stuff in common and we talked about us in the future, but just recently I realized that I don't like him as much as I thought I did. I think I may have been in lust for a while and now Im just coming out of it and thinking straight. I don't want to stay in a relationship that I'm not happy in, but at the same time I dont't want to break his heart. What can I do to end this so that we both can be ok with it? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (26 November 2007):
When you've only been seeing each other a couple of weeks and you're not happy, end it! It won't be so bad for him now, the only way you'd break his heart is if you let this go on for longer and let his feelings grown for you x
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reader, BadAsh6705 +, writes (26 November 2007):
All you can do is be honest and tell him that you don't think you are really into the relationship. Tell him you are sorry if you confused him or lead him on, but it's not what you want.
If he doesn't understand, there's not much you can do about it, but he will eventually get over it. I doubt he will be completely heart broken if you have only been together 3 weeks.
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reader, ty-ty78 +, writes (26 November 2007):
you should sit him down and talk...
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