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writes:I am in my teens and have been chatting online with this boy for a couple of years. I think I know almost everything about him, and sometimes I think that I have fallen in love although I know most people would say that I'm still to young to know what true love is. There's just one problem, I live in Asia while he lives all the way in the United Kingdom. My sister had an online relationship and she is now married to the man she met online. Should I break it off, or should I continue talking to him and see what will happen?
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reader, pgissyd  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 Keep chating to this guy, sounds like a great friend, reagarless of weather he would be husband material or not.
Please dont make any comitments, like coming over to the uk to meet him, not for a few years yet, because regardless of how well you THINK you know him, it could easily be some 50 year old man messing with you.
So keep right on talking to this guy, if you fall for him then thats ok, if he is genuine and falls for you too, then thats great, but make no commitments yet.
Congratulations to your sister, I hope her marrage is a good one.
Take care xxx
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reader, reallyveryconfused +, writes (26 November 2007):
I was in the same situation as you, although I am older. I met up with my first online boyfriend who lived in a different country to me and we had a 2 year relationship, seeing eachother every 2 months or so. Although this was expensive it was really fun. However, I recently ended it because I realised that in reality we were not well suited. There is no reason why you shouldn't continue talking to him although be careful to keep your head in reality. I know that you can fall in love in any age, although the younger you are the more likely it is that you will love for the wrong reasons. Good luck!
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reader, muffy  +, writes (26 November 2007):
 well im 13 and i hate it when people tell me that im to young to know what love is because i do know what it is.if you really love him and you know a lot about him then wait a little while.i made a mistake kinda like that one to but its not the same as yours its something different.i also had a long distance relationship before too.we just broke up a week and a half ago.i live in rancho and he lives in newport beach so it sucked not seeing him.so wait a little while longer because miracles could happen.i hope i helpedlove and kisses
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