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writes:Hi, I am in a majorrr crisis here. See, I had drunk sex with my best friend and now he wants to be a couple saying he's been waiting for this for forever! Also, I'm not really sure if we used protection that night! I dont't know how to get a pregnancy test and i'm embarrased but i need to find out now! Please tell me what you think i should do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): You need to deal with this NOW.
If you don't really want to make your relationship with him a sexual thing, then don't wait. Don't tiptoe around it. Don't keep your distance and make apologies and hope his enthusiasm will go away. Sit him down and tell him how you really feel.
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (23 June 2010):
 You are way too young for this, and judging by your post, way too immature. You cannot handle getting drunk, having sex, using protection, so you should keep your legs crossed and stick to milk.
You don't have any option with the guy. Tell him it was a mistake and you didn't mean for it to go anywhere, you were just drunk.
Wait about two weeks and then go to any drug store or most any grocery store, march yourself to the pharmacudicals department and find a pregnancey test and buy it. Bring at least 15 dollars with you. Get a box with more than one test. Follow the direction on the inside leaflette. If it comes out negative, wait another week and take it again. You might want to take it again either way, because on ocassion, the results can be false.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (23 June 2010):
 You have to wait at least two weeks after sex before you can use a pregnancy test. Try not to stress because that can delay your period.
I was in EXACTLY the same situation two weeks after my 17th birthday, only I was in love with him and he ended up only wanting me as fwb. For me, it was horrible because he was a jerk about it, although I never told him about my feelings. All that kept going through my head was stuff like 'why would you use a friend?' 'Did he feel anything for me?' 'Now what?'
You have to talk to him as soon as possible.
You have to sit him down and let him down gently. He might want to ask questions, and if he does let him ask them and answer him with upmost honesty. Allow him to digest it and take as much time as he needs to figure out how he feels about the situation and about you.
This will be upsetting for him, but it has to be done.
Good luck
xx
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