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writes: hey guysFirst of all thank you so much for taking your time to read my post.Me and my bf are in a complicated situation. We have been going out for just over a year now. I think that he's one of the sweetest guys I know, the thing is that I like being with him and all but sometimes I get the feeling that something is missing. I dont think that I'm totally in love with him but he is head over heels in love with me. I'm with him because I like his company and he is actually the only person I can talk anything with.When I see girls talking about their bf, how much in love they are and stuff I get sad because I too want to fell that feeling. The problem is that we are both very very emotional and cant live without each other, I'm all that he has got and he is all that I have. I know that we cant ever just be friends. He knows that I feel this way. Only recently I actually admitted myself, I knew that something was wrong but I didn't want to admit it to myself. What can we do ;(Thank you again for reading. It means a lot to me. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2010): It seems to me that you guys may not have any sexual chemistry that i believe is really important in a romantic relationship. Maybe you guys are just really meant to be best friends. You obviously care and love him a ton, just not the way you would a significant other. Did you ever feel that you were IN love with him? It may just be a rough patch where you can try to get that spark back. If you answer no, then it probably just isnt meant to be. Hopefully you guys can remain in each others lives someway or another though
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