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We had a special professional relationship, and the attraction was mutual. Should I get back in touch?

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Question - (5 February 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 February 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I care about a younger guy. I didn't know he was younger until it was too late. He's the trainer and I am the student, he gave me some private training at his home which I paid for. He knows I care about him and there would be 'excuse' touches from him.

The training has now ended but he sent me a poem in which he said that he would never forget me and I sent him something back telling him I would not forget him and asked him to keep in touch.

Just before he was due to go on holiday I rang him and he said that he would see me next year and I said okay and that was that, I texted him a personal question and he has not replied. I miss him!!

Should I get in touch with him? Send him a valentine text? Did he mean it when he said that he would not forget me? Please help.

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A male reader, dava +, writes (5 February 2006):

I agree with fairyangel.

.It would be unwise to put yourself in an even more open position than what u are already in. You text him. The balls now in his court so leave it to him. If he's the one and true to his word then he'll get in touch. Don't chase him tho at all despite how appealing it may appear to be.

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A female reader, fairyangel South Africa +, writes (5 February 2006):

fairyangel agony auntWell, you have left your door open & put the ball in his court...

If he promised to be in touch the last time you had contact, then you best see if he can be true to his word.

It would be unwise to go chasing after him, wait and see if he delivers on his word, if he doesn't, then you have your answer.

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