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writes: I cut off contact from a woman I was seeing when she went back to an ex boyfriend. She wanted to stay in touch, but I didnt answer her phone calls, to help me get over her. It's now been 7 weeks of no contact, the hurt has gone and I feel good about it, but I still think about her. Her boyfriend cheated on her (that's the reason she originally split with him). I don't know how things are with her and her boyfriend. But with Valentines coming up, I was thinking about sending some anonymous flowers to her work place, to let her know that there are better people out there. What do people think?
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reader, sassyalis402 +, writes (8 February 2006):
I think you should send her the flowers....it's a nice idea, and it would make her smile. I know i would...:-)
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reader, beentheredonethat +, writes (5 February 2006):
Send her flowers. If nothing else it will remind the boyfriend that he better watch his step...there may be a back up plan waiting in the wings. Send something unusual...not just red roses...but something like peach or yellow or pink and don't sign it...that is perfect. Pay in cash so it can't be traced too...hehehe.
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reader, fairyangel +, writes (5 February 2006):
Well, what a sweet gesture...
If it will make you happy to send her flowers anonymously,
then by all means, do so... it will at least bring a bit of joy to her life & brighten her day.
She might have a bit of explaining to do to her boyfriend, though, but seeing that he is not such a nice person anyway, ( for cheating on her) who really cares what he thinks?
Flowers are always a lovely gesture, and are always appreciated.
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