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writes:dear cupid..... me and my second cousin were dating (iknow that sounds weird but i really liked him) me and him kissed and i was madly inlove with him.... he broke up with me a few weeks ago because he said he thought our love was going away and i agreed which was stupid... and im still really inlove with him... What should i do? please help me i cant stop thinking of him and when i do i cry?.......
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx im gna try that :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2010): Hi,
Have you spoken to him since about how you feel? Maybe you could tell him you think you made a mistake and that you still have feelings for him. I know this is difficult to do, because you may be scared of the reaction you'll get, but it's the only way you'll be able to end your unhappiness - there are two outcomes, either he'll agree with you, or his feelings have truly changed. Either way, being in limbo like you are at the moment will not help you in the long run. You never know, maybe he's regretting what he said as much as you are, but there's only one way to find out. If you do speak to him, maybe try not to be too emotional about it if you can - it might make him feel pressured - just remind him of the nice times you shared together, it might make him realise what he's thrown away.
Best of luck.
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reader, tanay  +, writes (16 July 2010):
just tell him how you feel about him cuz my boyfriend said the same thing to me than we broke up but i was still in love with him so a mouth later i called him cuz i got tired of us not being togeter after everything we had been through and wen he picked up the phone he told me to he had a girl friend and i said oh but i said ok but i just gota tell you how i feel cuz i dont want this pain to be inside of me enymore so i told him and he told me to hold on than a few minutes later he said he no longer has a girlfriend and told me he missed me
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