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writes:Well, I confronted my boyfriend about a girl that kept calling him and told him it made me feel uncomfortable and he became very upset with me and we ended up arguing about other things. I live with him and have been for a while and he is the only person in my life willing to help me. I'm in the process of getting back on my feet so if we were to break up, we'd still be living together. I don't want to break up with him. I want us to communicate and work things out and earlier he said "im dumping you because of you" then shortly after said "im not dumping you" this has given me huge confusion.Well, I had a panic attack and asked him if he would take me to the hospital and he said he couldnt because his car has issues [which it does, he has to charge it for like an hour before we go anywhere] so, his grandmother took me. I asked him if he would come with me and he said no.I came back maybe two hours later and a note was on the bed saying I made him feel like a bad person and that he "went to drink his worries away"he took his laptop and phone charger so I have no idea if he plans on coming back.What should I do?What should I say?
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (17 August 2012):
 Well may be at first instead of over reacting and bombarding him with questions about the girl who kept calling,you should have spoken to him calmly asking why the girl has been calling him so many times..had he said she's just a good friend you could have casually said' oh ok you should bring her home sometime for dinner,it would be great to know some of ur friends'..Second I think it was pretty rude of your boyfriend not to accompnay you to the hospital irrespective of the fight you had,health comes first and he was not even worried about you,if he didn't want to come to the hospital he could have waited for you back home rather than 'drinking his worries away'..I think if you don't want to mess things with him,talk to him straight up,tell him 'I might have over reacted about that girl who keeps calling you but that's only because I love you so much,my over possesiveness took over and I had a weak moment,I didn't want to say or do anything to hurt you cause I want this to work,so I'm hoping you want the same,so let's put this behind us and start fresh,and I know you will be honest with me,so rather than fighting I would like to deal with this like mature adults'..See what he says..Gluck x
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