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writes:I am currently in the process of trying to get over a guy i dated for a short period he said he loved me as i did him and he got on very well with my daughter.unfortunately he had to move on due to his job.I feel i was probably instrumental to the break up by constantly txting him and basically not wanting too loose him. The inevitable happened as he has now gone he comes onto the computer and doesnt speak just recently i mailed him just generally saying i hoped he was well and that my life was getting back to normal and that if he didnt want contact that i understood.He replied to the e-mail saying thanx and he was glad i was ok . Im not sure what to do next really do i wait for him too initiate contact with me again or not ?? It seems he does things when he sees fit i did truly love him but am trying to move on i woluld love to remain friends as we got on so so well. I dont know how he feels about me now and maybe hes moved on any advice ?????
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (25 August 2008):
 Hey,If you said that you'd understand if he didn't want to contact you anymore, and he said thanks, then I think he's intending to not contact you anymore. You should just try to get over him and not be so clingy. Maybe he's avoiding you on purpose... I know I shouldn't be so hypocritical, because I'm clingy too. I know it's hard not to be when you're in love... But if you were only going out a short time anyway, it shouldn't be too hard. Spend a few months being single, and then go out and try meeting someone new.
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