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writes: i just broke up with my boyfriend recently because he was way imature but 2 days after we broke up my best friend asked me if it would be ok if she asked him out so i told her yes. What was i thinking! Well,now its driving me insane! What should i do? from,young girl in need
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reader, boiicrazii21393 +, writes (13 December 2006):
 if you say yes to your friend, that means yes. in the middle of their relationship you cant just go and say no i dont want you to hav him anymore. i know how much that would suck, because if you just dumped this guy, your friends arent really supposed to just go hook up with this guy. theyre supposed to hang out with you and make you happy at times like this. but the good part is, at least she asked you instead of just goin out with him w/o asking you.
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reader, Sally R. Cinnamon +, writes (13 December 2006):
 Rachellou,
It's time for you to be mature. You said, "Yes". And it was good of your best friend to ask you. Now you should stick by what you said, and bear it. It's difficult but that will pass. It won't be long before the situation changes. Perhaps you will get better at dealing with this, perhaps you will get a new boyf, perhaps your best friend and your ex will split up. Hang on in there, be as good as you can to your friend, and know that you are doing the right thing by her.
Good luck young one,
-Sally
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reader, LISAG +, writes (13 December 2006):
 You didn't want him so it's fair enough that your friend can try him. You're just feeling a bit possessive and a little jealous but remember as you said he's immature anyway. She'll probably work this one out and get rid of him too ! Never worth falling out with a friend over a guy, friends will be there long after a guy has gone !
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reader, laura ann +, writes (13 December 2006):
 Well im sure you wont make the same mistake again. That is what always happens at school so i am sure you are not alone.
But hey you'll have another boyfriend soon im sure.
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