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We broke up because he thinks I deserve better! How can I change his mind?

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Question - (24 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 24 September 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend just broke up with me. He thinks i deserve better... he is still in school, and i graduated last year and got a good job. He feels he is not good enough for me, and last night told me he is putting his feelings aside and doing the best for me.....

I absolutely love him, he is the love of my life... how can I change his mind, i have talked to him, cry to him... i dont want him to go... how can i change his mind? i know he still loves me, but wants to do this for me... please help...

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A female reader, hlskitten United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2008):

hlskitten agony auntThis is a classic excuse people give when they want to break up with someone, its usually a sign of a nice person. Doesn't want to offend by saying the relationship has run its course, so tend to say you're too good for them and could do better.

Did you notice him distancing himself recently?

C xxxx

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A male reader, L VIC Mexico +, writes (24 September 2008):

no!!! what you need to do is to support him giving him motives to finish school and then he wont feel that way any more if he really loves you is normal he feels that way cause right now you are on a better position but talk to him he will change his mind my girlfriend finish school too and im on the way to finish and i ben with her for the past 4 years we ben thru somuch shit and we still together oohh by the way tell your boifriend to quit being a little bitch hahaha

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A female reader, thelittleone! United States +, writes (24 September 2008):

thelittleone! agony auntHey!

sweetie!

its's good to know how much are u inlove with him! but maybe u need some space try to keep ur mind out and to meet new people .. maybe he's right about his feelings perhaps he can be confuse cuz ur in different position in front of him..

try to be honest!

but i think .. u need some space..

ps. Follow ur heart but don't forget to hear ur brain

xoxo

little one

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