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writes: i am married to a lovely and understanding man but i just have no interest at all in sex and dont even get any urges to do so. i have a 5 year old child and only felt i wanted to have sex then because i wanted a baby and havent had sex since then.i also can not face up to having a smear test even though i know it is fairly painless.i really want help to sort this out.any help or advice would be greatly recieved.plse help
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (21 November 2005):
i would rule out any simple reasons first which im sure you have in 5 years, such as not attracted to your husband, or if you just dont like the way he does things but it sounds to me that you need to speak to your doctor. there are alot of women who have problems with their hormones which causes them to lose their sex drive.it doesnt sound like youve had one for quite some time. Have you ever enjoyed sex? i dont know your back ground but maybe something has happened to you in your life and maybe you need some counsouling to get over that rough spot.but as a woman i recomend you face your fears and get your smears done each year or 2 years whatever the recomended time frame for your age even if you are not having sex. they check for alot of things and maybe able to prevent somethings such as cancer from spreading if they find it soon enough. but i would definitly tal to a doctor about this. good luck
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