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*algrl
writes:I have a boyfriend in other country and now am in university and I met someone else here. He has a girlfriend back in his home town too so we decided to just be fling mates.. its been going well until recently when I figured that I am falling for him. Do I tell him or do I just keep quiet and he will be done with his coarse end of next year. Help please..
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reader, Elizz  +, writes (4 December 2007):
at this point i want to add some thing you know what i have experiance on such kind of relationship so now what you have to do is think about by your self and make sure that the guy that you love currently ask your self did he care about you or he just want to chill and pass this lonely days with you this is what you have to know telling the heart beat of yours is not nessacery and the other thing that you have to make sure is what is the probelem on you means your boy friend from the distance did he treate you like his girl friend answer this quastions then you make your own dision and choose your right partener.
you have to be smart okay .
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reader, bqagirl2692  +, writes (3 December 2007):
 You are worried about the wrong thing. You should be worried about how you tell your boyfriend in other country the foolish acts that have been going around between you and this guy. The both of you are being very selfish and i think that if the both of you believe this can continue in the future then let go of your boyfriend for his own sake. Dont play with fire because it'll end up burning you. Answering your question, let this guy know how you feel. The both of you need to talk about the things you are doing and how it affects others. Especially your relationships. Be smart about the choices you make because you never know what you have until its gone. Think about it.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (2 December 2007):
 Yes i would go with the anonymous poster here, i think he gave you brilliant advice.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 December 2007):
 The anonymous poster said it all. Three cheers for him!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2007): Something that you don't ask is about the person you're seeing locally. You need to figure this out for his sake - it would be very unfair to him if you were holding out for someone else.Getting to your question, I think you should tell him. He needs to know how you feel. It would be very unhealthy if you kept seeing each other and you had different intentions.
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