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writes:we've know each other for like 10 months. Before that, once in awhile we will hang out together with some other friends.I never taught of liking her and stuff like that but at 3 weeks back, we are getting closer, sometimes she asked me out, sometimes i will asked her out.Slowly i am starting to like her more and more, and i think she do as well, on the pass few days i tell her that i like her and i will like to be with her stuff like that. She kind of say don't know for the question, then i try to just hold her hand, but she will pull off for like after 1 minutes. and also i just knew that she ended a relationship 3 weeks ago which is the same time i am getting close with her. After all that thing i tell her i sense that there is a slight little changes on how she treated me. I am really confused now, i don't know what to do?sometimes i can just wake up from my sleep and think for a solution for how to make things just like last time before i tell her those stuff.Everyone, tell me wat should i do now? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (21 August 2008):
 She may be confused about her feelings, she may still be getting over the relationship, as it was only 3 weeks ago. I think you should just give her some time, don't rush anything, don't push her to get close to you. Continue to get to know her, but lay off the physical contact, and try to avoid comments that set you up for rejection right now.
She's setting the pace, and you seem to have moved too quickly.
She may just need some more time to get over the break up, but then she may just see you as a friend only. If you've told her you like her as more than just a friend, and she hasn't said she likes you back, then you need to back off for the time being.
If I were you, I would busy myself with friends and don't avoid the company of other women. If she perceives you as being desirable to other women, she may see you in a different light at some point.
I hope things work out for you and that she will return your affection at some point, but for now, let it lie.
Good luck.
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reader, SuperSammie  +, writes (20 August 2008):
 hi there,well from the sounds of it, she does really like you and you really like her, and she sounds like she does want a relationship with you... but it might be a bit weird for her considering she recently broke up with her boyfriend, and at the same time you tell her you like her.so she might be a bit confused and might not be ready for another relationship.also she might just want to take thngs slow with you as she mite be scared that a romantic relationship with you would break your friendship, so she might find it weird to go out with someone she sees as such a good friend.my advice would be to ask her about it and take it as her speed. if she wants to go slow, respect that and go slow. but if she would like to remain friends then stay friends. everything will return to normal or get better in a couple of weeks, you just need to sort out how you both feel.hope this helps x
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