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writes:So i've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now, i'm 17 yet this relationship progressed alot and we were close together.Me and my girlfriend got drunk yesterday (I know, i'm underage) and I felt it in quite a bad way. I was with my girlfriend and two friends who were not under the influence.Anyway the topic of lesbians came up (My girlfriend started this topic apparently) and suddenly my girlfriend kicked my head a few times then ran away. Now I don't know what was going on here, I mean I couldn't even remember what was said about lesbians but my girlfriend took something badly and I don't know what. My two friends both said that I never said anything out of line, all I said apparently was "Lesbians aren't really my thing". Then this happened. She complained that I hit her yesterday when she hit me yet all I did (and my friends told me again) is hold her leg to prevent her hitting again.I really don't know what to do now, i've had a rough time these past few weeks. I've fell out with friends for her etc. and this happens. So I call upon the world for advice, thanks very much for reading.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 August 2008):
If she is still angry and not talking to you then you may just have to give her some time.
Send her an email or a text letting her know that you want to talk about things and sort them out. That way she has to read it even if she doesn't reply.
You may just have to wait for her to come to you. If she doesn't then you may just have to accept that she has too many problems to have a boyfriend at the moment.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAny suggestions on how I can get her to talk to me if she isn't speaking to me at the moment? I really just want to know her opinion on what happened.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (20 August 2008):
Wow, she obviously has some issues with something. Lesbians may have something to do with it. But to be honest I think it was probably more the fact that she was drunk.
Some people just turn nasty when they get drunk. I know a few people who have gone T total because of this.
If there is violence in your relationship you need to sit her down and have a serious talk. Find out what is wrong and if it's something serious that she's not telling you. Or if it was that she was just drunk and kicking out then tell her you don't want to be around her when she's drunk. You have to make her talk about it and tell her if it doesn't get sorted out then you are going to break up with her. Don't let her avoid the issue.
If this goes on then you have to end it as it's not a healthy relationship for either of you to be in.
Good Luck!! xx
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