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*eriem1421
writes:*OP's Original Title*hey every1!!! hope ur goodwell i'm 16 n had this huge crush on a boy who used 2 go 2 my school !!! he liked me 2 n he was gonna ask me out.at the begining we were both super shy!!!in time he talked 2 me n we were finally getting closer 2 eachother like friends.then he didnt come 2 school 4 a while then i heard he changed school n its very far from mine n my house n where i usally hang out.i havent seen him since then.even after he left i still think about him n i still like him n i really miss him.but lately i lost hope n i feel like i wanna move on.a part of me feels like over him n a part of me feels like i still miss him n really need him.that's why i'm very confused!! i'm torn apart!!i dont get it!!! am i over him or not?is there a way 2 find out?!!! plzzzzzzzzzzzz help me!!n thx in advance!!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (13 June 2010):
 I think you're going to be just fine. It's okay to mourn what you used to have with him, and there will always be a fond memory of the time you spent with him.
What makes me know that you're going to be fine is that you realize the need and desire to move on without him. That's a point that so many women never get to, and they go on pining for the guy and wasting years of their lives.
It's okay to miss him. You moving on will ensure that new opportunities are on the horizon for you. Next step is allowing yourself to have feelings for someone else when the time comes. Take your time, hang with your friends, and enjoy life to the fullest!
Good luck! You're on the right track!
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