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writes: For the last couple of months my boyfriend and I have argued constantly. We both agree that we love each other and don't want to be apart but we've tried everything to stop arguing but nothing is working! We see each other twice a week and for me thats not enough, I try to explain why and he thinks it's because I don't want him to see his mates but thats not the reason because he sees them everyweekend I just want a little more time with! Reply to this Question
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reader, StarNews +, writes (8 March 2006):
 Its pretty common to argue about time spent together, and how much time you should spend apart. The key to remember is that its not the quantity of time that should matter, it should be the quality.
With that said, you should come up with a solution that works for both of you. Communication is very important, and if he truly loves you, values the relationship, and wants to see you happy, he will compromise. My suggestion is to alternate weekends, and spend 2 days together one week, and 3 days together the next.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2006): I think you're pushing for too much. Compromise is key to most relationships. Sometimes I see my gf 6 days of the week - sometimes just once or twice. Sit down, talk with your boy, and try to make a compromise between what you and him wants and what you two are capable of.
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