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writes:Hello I am 21 years of age and my girl is 20. About 10days ago we had sex for the 2nd time in our 3 years relation. It was a protected sex, the condom was on and everything went smooth (However I am not sure of some dried up precum on my fingers that might have been gone inside her while fingerin). Since that day, she has been having pain in her legs, cramps in her belly and transparent liquid discharge more like a precum from her vagina 2 to 3 times a day. The pain in legs and cramps has been occasional(just 2 to 3 times by now). I want to know if this precum like fluid discharge normal? And if this discharge is normal, I would further like to know if it causes weakness in a girl. Maybe that is the reason of her leg pain. We are really worried if she might be pragnant. Kindly help me by telling through your own experiences.
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reader, Lucy79  +, writes (26 June 2010):
I am no docter, a transparant liquid form her vagina and cramps in her belly can all just be normal, or not, again only a docter can tell.
I dont really think a girl can get pregnant by ´dried precum on your fingers´ but again, I am no docter.
I do however have been in the same situation (one where the condom actually did break) and literary a day later I was having all the ´sympthons´ (of being pregnant).
It was ofcourse all in my head and me and my bf worried a lot and I was starting to feel every little cramp and whatnot, stuff you normally dont even notice.
The second afer the pregnancy test came back negative all these cramps and all dissapeared, its funny what stress can do to your mind/body :)
Although my thought is that it is highly, highly, highly unlikely she got pregnant of this, you two are worried:
So my advise is to go get a pregnancy test, and ASK some person in the store for help.
Some expensive tests can measure the stuff they measure already after 4 days, others will only be able to tell from the day she should have her period etc etc.
Make sure you get the right one acording to your situation.
If you for whatever reason cant yet take a test then stop worrying untill she is supposed to get her period, although if she is *really* stressed this might cause her period to come later.
Since you two are worried together, dont drag eachother in.
Try not to worry too much, and to keep stress levels down, do not yet start talking about ´what if´.
The ´what if´ talk is a very good talk to have before you start having sex and there is no one (possibly) pregnant yet. Not while being worried and what not.
short version:
-wait for her period/get a good pregnancy test
-dont go intoo ´what if´ mode, dont make a ´problem´ before it is there
-if her pains do not go after this is over, then go see a docter, the pain in legs and cramps could be something completely diffrent.
-also have the ´what if´ talk when it is clear she is not pregnant and make sure you are on the same page. Having sex, no matter how protected can, although its a very tiny chance, result in pregnancy.
good luck!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (26 June 2010):
 It makes more sense for her to see the doctor. The discharge you describe sounds puzzling, the pain in her legs is not normal. Pain is your body's way of telling you something is wrong. Don't ignore it.
She needs to be examined by a physician soon.
Best wishes.
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reader, spinnaker +, writes (26 June 2010):
 the precum is secretions from the bulbourethral gland, which is designed to facilitate insertion of the penis into the vagina. It is also designed to clean the uerethra. It is extremely unlikely that any remenent sperm would have enough energy to survive existing on your finger and the hostile environment of the vagina to complete a pregnancy without a hitch.
to give you some perspective, a low sperm count is considered to be less than 20 million sperm cells per milliliter of ejaculate.
As for her condition she may need to see a doctor or a gynecologist if the condition persists.
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