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writes:i am a 28 year old woman,divorced a year and a half ago,i have been a very horny girl from the begining.I've had good sex partners before i got married and i've had a few sex partners after i got divorced too.My ex-husband however did not satisfy me,i was married for 5 years,however that was not the reason for the divorce! Six months ago i started seeing this guy,whos never been married,33 years old.I'm having the best sex of my life,he is the only guy who gives me multiple orgasms in one session,and we have at least 3 in one night.However, i want to move on and find someone for a serious relationship,to get married again and have kids.We are not right for each other for marriage and we know it.I am so addicted to having sex with him that i dont consider seeing someone else at all,with our busy working schedules i see him on the weekends only.I've tried breaking up with him,so that i can move on, but end up seeing him again when the week is up, i dont know what i should do, and how!
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reader, starfairy  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 Just go with the flow, enjoy the sex until the novelty wears off, then concentrate on finding someone more stable when you are ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2008): Wanting to break up because you're having the sexual time of your life is a complete mystery to me!
What's the big deal about getting married again anyway? These days it doesn't really matter whether you're married or not when considering starting a family, and it's certainly no guarantee that your future husband will stay with you once you've got your longed for family, with divorce being as easy as it is.
Until you find a good solid reason for splitting up with the sex God I'd carry on as you are, otherwise you'll still hanker after the brilliant sex life that you once had and your future marriage will be doomed before it even starts.
You've got a few child-bearing years in you yet, so I wouldn't rush into anything until you find your soulmate. Maybe you'll find someone who you're compatible with and who gives you the multiple orgasms. Now wouldn't that be nice?
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reader, epifanatical  +, writes (12 October 2008):
 You sound like you are having so much fun fun fun !! Hey thats great to hear!! Why spoil that by settling down so quickly? Enjoy your new found singleness and freedom sweetee. Also, when looking for a lifelong partner we usually get the opposite, NOONE in sight!!
Take the time to rediscover you! Rejoice and love yourself, and get out and take this opportunity to do things you enjoy! When you are ready, love will be waiting, and might even surprize you!
I have never met anyone yet that has had success in finding love when they are looking for it! Let love just happen! You have plenty of time ahead of you to start a family and find the man of your dreams. Someone that is compatible and also has an insatiable sex drive like you do! So I say embrace sexuality and just enjoy yourself for now! Cheers!!
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reader, :):):) +, writes (12 October 2008):
You have only been divorced a year, theres no need to be in a rush to get married again, you are still young. Enjoy 'spending time' with this guy for as long as it lasts. Its never a good idea to rush from one big relationship to another so enjoy yout casual relationship and try not to worry about marriage for a while x
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