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We are friends but had sex last weekend! Can our friendship survive this?

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Question - (11 November 2006) 6 Answers - (Newest, 21 November 2006)
A female , *razykid writes:

i have been friends with a boy for two years last weekend we got drunk i ended up stayin at his house and we had sex. can our relationship go back to the way it was?

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A female reader, crazykid +, writes (21 November 2006):

crazykid is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I REALLY NEED SOME ADVICE IM SO HURT AND CONFUSED

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A female reader, crazykid +, writes (15 November 2006):

crazykid is verified as being by the original poster of the question

im not sure how much of it he remembers cuz i rememeber pretty much all of it despite being really drunk.he asked me do u remember much of it? and i replied "not really"even though i do. then he just said "yeh".is he just sayin that?do u think that u can sex with some you are completeley unattracted to just because ur really drunk?

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A female reader, crazykid +, writes (15 November 2006):

crazykid is verified as being by the original poster of the question

He asked me the next day Do you think it was stupid?i said yeh cuz i guess i thought thats what he'd want to hear and it would make it easier cuz im very insecure and have low self confidence.I like him as more than a frend but i guess im just protecting myself from rejection and would rather not tell him how i feel and keep his frendship.we didnt use a condom but i took the morning after pill the next day could i still be pregnant?

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A female reader, marie78 +, writes (14 November 2006):

I think you two should discuss the situation and then continue being friends, if that's what you both want. However, if you both want something more, then discuss your feelings for one another. It'll all work out! Good Luck!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006):

Put the genie back into the bottle? Good luck.

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A female reader, xLEAHx United Kingdom +, writes (11 November 2006):

xLEAHx agony auntHi Anon,

I should see no reason why not,these things can happen if you had sex coz you were drunk and you lost control of yourselfs, and then the next morning regreted what you both had done then my advise would be to talk to eachother see if he feels the same way as it should never had happend and it didn't mean nothing, then just both agree to forget and make sure it never happens again, and carry on as if nothing happend,on the other hand if you or he have feelings for eachother after what happend you might want to take your relationship to a higher level, but really you need to talk to him and find out whats going on inside his head and what he wants to do..

xLEAHx

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