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writes:Been talking to this guy online. We are both 14. We met today at the shops there were a few akward quiet moments but i think it went ok for a first meeting. However when i spoke to him after online i said was 2day ok? and he said we dont get on very well do we all we did was walk around and talk. Is this a way of blowing me off or what? Before he made it pretty clear he fancied me. I was quite upset by what he said. What do i do now? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): xLeahx is right..don't go chasing after him, dear. He sounds a bit rude and immature, if you ask me. By all means, be 'just' friends with him but don't expect much. If speaking to him again and the subject is ever brought up, just say "Gee, it's too bad you thought our meeting didn't go well. I found it rather enjoyable" and leave it at that. Handle yourself with class and style. Don't come off needy or desperate to date him. Because, quite frankly..who wants to date an a fellow with such bad manners and someone who would say such a disrespectful thing to a female. It's his loss, dear. I strongly suggest, you keep your dating options with other people, open. Get out with other people, have a blast, be a happy positive person and don't let people like him..take you down. He ain't worth it. Good luck dear and be strong.
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reader, xLEAHx +, writes (11 November 2006):
 Hi Kat,
Maybe he seemed to have expected more for a first date rather then just talking and getting to know each other better, like actually going somewhere like the cinema or going for something to eat ,which he should have planned when you arranged the meeting, if just talking and walking was so boring for him,,i can quite imagine how upset you was as you didn't really wanna hear that,..i wouldn't go chasing him ..if he really likes you that much and wants to see you again ,he will make the next move as in wanting to see you again, if he doesn't mention about meeting again that prooves his not interested so i'd leave it hun and just stick to being friends online.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2006): If I were you I'd still keep talking to him as a friend though instead but find someone else and hell soon regret saying that to you
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