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writes: hiim a 19 year old guy who feels really guilt ridden about liking a girl and admitting he liked her as the results of this haunt him to this very day.I liked this girl for a really long time and finally decided to let her know how I feel, I felt pressured to tell her (people telling me shes Bi, she was leaving school). when I did tell her, she got her friends to deal with me and I got ostracised, I worry that she hates me for telling her how I felt. I try to move on day by day but her memory still haunts me, I just feel bad for telling her how I felt.What do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): thanks for your kind responses.
I really don't understand how a girl could be so cruel, I just hope she gets whats coming to her. I also don't know why I still have feelings for her and have decided not to bother wasting my time with an attention seeking, stuck up bitch.
someone did say that once I start thinking about other girls then I would be over her but they all look the same to me at the moment and I don't really want to go through this type of pain again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2006): Don't feel bad, it's her that is the baddy here.
She was to childish to deal with what you told her with a mature response and that's her problem. Would you want to go out with someone as horrible and stuck up as that.
She obviously thinks she's better than you, and she isn't. Although it may be hard, you need to forget this girl, there are better ones out there who will respect the way you feel a bit more x
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reader, SabreWolf +, writes (12 November 2006):
I'm definitely not criticizing your taste in girls here, but I do question why she felt it necessary to get her friends to "deal" with you rather than saying anything herself. It's probably not a sign that she likes you, but it doesn't necessarily mean that she hates you. I'm 19 too, so I know that it's really easy to get hung up on certain girls. If it's haunting you, you could always try talking to her again and asking her directly about her feelings... just understand that if you choose to do this you better be fully prepared to hear what you don't want to hear. Once you find the right girl in your life, though, you probably won't be so haunted by her memory.
Just remember, truth is a catalyst... You might get a lot of rejection at once, or you get something that immediately clicks. Either way, your answer's immediate, which is really better than having it strung out over an interminable period of time. You were being truthful to yourself as well as to her, so take some pride in that and don't regret saying anything, because the alternative really wouldn't have been any better, would it?
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