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female
age
36-40,
*ileybug
writes:About 4 months ago i started working at a strip club as an exotic dancer. This guy that works there started flirting with me like he did with all the other girls. I liked the attention so i flirted back. A few weeks into working there we started to fool around, problem is...He is married with a child and I'm married with 2 kids. He told me we could continue just as long as I didn't fall in love with him or tell anyone. We have had sex numerous times, been to his house 3 times. Its like an every weekend deal. We have been caught by several co workers. His wife has gotten a few of my texts which we played it off. I have fallen in love with him and he knows it. I have actually told him. One day he will tell me we are done the next day we are doing it again. He is a very cocky person, which i like that about him. What i don't understand is why does he keep coming back? Hes told me its his way or no way. When we have sex its hot! We have actually talked and he said that he wasn't in love with me but he had feelings (like he cared about me.) but they weren't strong enough to leave his wife. Everyone at work says that he is in love with me and if he wasnt he would of dropped me a long time ago. (i'm not the 1st girl he has cheated with). I am the longest affair he has had. He is risking everything for me and actually his wife told him that he needed to quit talking to me. He told her no that she couldn't choose his friends. There has been 2 different times that he has stared into my eyes when we was having sex and just his actions makes me think he is falling in love with me. Is he in love with me?
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reader, miss fit  +, writes (4 May 2007):
no. no, he is not in love with you, he is a lying user who only wants you for sex. he does not deserve to own a penis. by the way, on a panic scale of 1 to 10, how much do you care that in the likely event that your husband finds out your kids lives will be ruined??
there, i think i made my point.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (4 May 2007):
 The answer to your question is no and it's not going to happen either, I guarantee it. Hope you enjoy being a piece of meat because that's all you are to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): Your occupation will have made him view you as a certain type. He is using you for sex, which is what you are selling, so fair enough. The way you package yourself is what you are. Sorry, there is no depth to this relationship - just as there is no substance, meaning or value to your occupation, which is how he met you. It is purely erotic infatuation, which anyone with a nice figure can get a man to do.
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reader, heartxbrokenxgurl +, writes (4 May 2007):
 well he has to if he likes havin sex with u n if he goes bk to u but i think u shuld tell him its over cuz its not fair for ur husband n its not fair for his wife so just listen to me n tell him u cant do it nemore
good luck
jenna
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