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writes: Ok I broke my virginity a few weeks ok with my bf and it was a bit sore but no blood or anything. But at the weekend there we had sex and he was worried he was gonna loose his hard on after putting a condom on so he pushed inside me before i was properly wet etc and it was agony. When he pulled out we were both covered in blood. Is this normal?The bleeding stopped the day after (although the fluid coming out of my vagina now is that slightly off colour i get after my period and smells of blood).I know that your hymen breaks when you have sex but does your hymen surround the hole where you pee from too? Cos the spoungy tissue round it is ripped. Can someone tell me if this is normal? I didn't think that bit was meant to rip till you loose the whole thing during child birth! Please help
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reader, mum2be  +, writes (21 March 2007):
if you are concerned, visit your doc, but to help with the weeing, do some pelvic floor exercises...
the best one to do is to pull in your pelvic muscles... like your trying not to wee and poo at the same time... and count to three... then pull them up a little more, and count to three... pull them up a little bit more each time, until you can't pull them up anymore, then you go back down again. Picture it as if you are in a lift.. going up to floor 1, 2, 3 and so on, and then coming back down again.
all the best.
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reader, mum2be +, writes (20 March 2007):
Your bf was out of order... he would not loose his hard on! It is normal to bleed for a day or two, but i dont fully understand what you mean when you mention 'the hole where you pee from'...what spongey bit are you referring too... childbirth affects the bit of skin between your vagina and anus, not anywhere else...
If oyu are that concerned, visit your doctor, but as long as the bleeding has stopped, i would not worry too much.
all the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionAlso meant to add that now i get the sensation i need to pee every few hours but very little comes out and before i could go for like 13hours without needing the loo!
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