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anonymous
writes: I have a phone numer of this girl [She's an exchange student from Italy]. My friend gave me her number and she never see me before.I called her today and she said she's busy and can't talk right now. Does it mean she doesn't want to talk to me ? Should I call her again ?What should I about this girl ? She's really cute ! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell she knows who I am and that I have her phone number. Actually she was about to see me many times but I was always busy to meet.
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reader, Heartbroken in love +, writes (6 September 2009):
So she never seen you before? Then she probably doesn't really know who you are. You are going about this all wrong. In the future if you want a girls number just ask her yourself. If you get it through a friend your a stalker to her. If you ask her and she says no so be it. If she is so cute the last thing you want is for her to know that you think that. talk to her like a person and that will be your best shot at winning her over.
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reader, L* +, writes (6 September 2009):
why don't you text her instead of calling her? texting is less personal and she might prefer texting since she has never seen you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): Hi,I think something you need to consider is that she has never met you before, or at least in person from what it seems. She was probably taken back since she doesn't know you. A good way to bridge that gap would be to introduce herself in person somehow, or see if your friend can get her to come out to a social gathering that you're at. I wouldn't advise calling her again, as there's a chance she might not pick up the next time. Also, you don't know what she's like, besides that she's cute. She might not be looking for a relationship since she's an exchange student, so keep that in mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2009): She might have been genuinely busy this time, but if you keep calling her, or initiating contact and she doesn't respond or want to talk, then i think you should consider that a brush off.
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