A
male
age
36-40,
*ainkiller
writes:okay there's this girl that works in a drive up esspresso and when I drive up to buy coffee she's very nice and I never gave her a tip just to see if she's only nice because she wants a tip, anyways she was the first to say how is your day and then we talk alittle. once I got a haircut and nobody said anything at my work but she noticed and said hey you got a haircut also whenever there's was another girl working and the other girl was getting my coffee she came up and smiled at me also when I come she sometimes tilts her head to the side and thrusts her chest toward me which I'd like to believe. once her and the other girl was working and they had a little like 2 year old girl with them and the other girl said outloud where is her mother and then that girl said you don't know where her mother is as if to say what a stupid thing to say which I'm thinking maybe she didn't want me to think she has a kid. one time I didn't go there for like a month and she said long time no see and I didn't really say anything becuse I suck and don't know what to say then I gave her a 1 dollor tip and she said thanks and then I didn't see her for like 4 months and when I did she was very not that friendly like she was before so does it sound like she maybe liked me or just customer service by the way I'm 6,3 brown hair well thanks if you read this Reply to this Question
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reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (27 August 2009):
I think you should head back over there, be more direct with your flirtations. You never once mentioned how you reacted to her advances other than the giddiness it elicits.
Try to see how she reacts when you make a joke, or flash her a smile, hang out there for a while, dont just get coffee and head out. Talk for a while converse about music, great opener. Like the terrible dross they play in cafe's.
-iydm
By the way bro, as a word of encouragement.
I met my wife through Starbucks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2009): Maybe she liked you but decided that after four months of not seeing you it wasn't worth it to carry a torch for someone she only sees for a few minutes at work. Maybe she found a boyfriend in that four months and doesn't feel right flirting anymore, or maybe she was just being friendly. Maybe she is actually a space alien.
We can only speculate reading about this over the internet, so maybe you should try talking to HER to find out what is really up. I know it's hard, but honestly if you want to know why she is the way she is the best way to find out is to tell her how you feel and take it from there. Good luck.
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