A
male
age
30-35,
*Mylife
writes:I like this girl. But I don't think she likes me. I am good friends with her so I don't wanna get rejected cuz life in college is gonna be weird because we study the same thing and we are just in first year. When we chat on fb or on texts. She always ends with chat ya later or something like that and she is never the one texting first.But what I am wondering is few weeks, months ,and more months ago she has asked me many times if I am going out some nights. She has also told me I should go this bar (where she was going) numerous times. Once during holiday she said that I should come down to her dorm area because there is gonna be parties.I guess I was oblivious to this but I now feel like she was asking me out but I just didn't realize it. Can someone confirm??Did I miss my chance or should I still ask her out? If I get rejected, I will lose a friend, a good one at that and it will be awakward going into college for the next 4 years till my degree and god knows how many more after that.Thank you for reading and answering. Ye are all sexi beasts!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2012): Well from a girl's perspective, I can't say for sure she is asking you out. I have done that to guys many times but it is just being friendly. I am thinking she wants to get to know you better so she is inviting you to social events. Don't go and ask her out until you can tell she kind of likes you (whether she flirts with you in person, smiles at you or texts you) if you are afraid of being rejected.
If you are feeling bold, then ask her out. She might be playing hard-to-get! Even if she rejects you, its not the end of the world. There are others out there :)
For now, just be her friend and slowly get more friendly and in turn ask her out. Don't act desperate and chat to her a lot (girls run away from that) and just be yourself!
Things will work out, don't stress yourself out :)
Cheers x
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