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30-35,
*ez_rocks
writes:there is this chick that i use to be friends with, we are not friends now as she lies to make her self look good, and she use to make me feel like 2 cm tall, as she would tell every one my sercrets, and she was a slut!! to say the least we are not friends any morebut i just want to know did i do the right thing?
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reader, Tigerlily  +, writes (29 November 2007):
It sounds like you are very hurt by this girl. You trusted her and she betrayed you. Someone who abuses your trust, belittles you and does not treat your confidences with respect... is not your friend.
It's very hard though, because the thing is when someone hurts you, you want to stop feeling hurt... you want some sort of resolution. You want them to acknowledge what they did to you, and for them to apologize or make it right somehow. I think that is where your own doubts are coming from, you want to open the door to this girl because you want healing. However, you can't trust her so that's not a smart idea. I would try to let her go and spend more time with people you can trust who make you feel good. Your heart will heal in time.
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reader, peaches83  +, writes (29 November 2007):
 Yes you did.
There is no one in the world that should make you feel like that.
That is one of my most hated things.
I detest people taht belittle others to make themselves look good.
To me she is not worth the thought of this letter.
Ignore her and move on with your life. You ave no need for so called friends like that.
Theres a whole new world waiting for you
Peaches
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