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Puberty issues! Help!

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Question - (26 October 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, *igguy3213 writes:

I'm 16 right now, and I think I haven't gone through puberty yet. At least, not all the way. I have pubic hair, but my penis doesn't seem to have grown at all.

My girlfriend wants to be physically intimate with me, but I have confidence issues and feel embarrassed.

(Mod Note: You're 16. Some proper grammar and punctuation would help wouldn't you think? ^_^)

Original Post: Hey im 16 years old and i havent gone through full puberty i have all the hair and everything just not the bigness and the length if u know what i mean i havent gone through puberty like that just the hair and im 16. Please help me i really need help and my girlfriend wants to do stuff with me and i wont cause im scared!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007):

If you are worried then why dont you go and get checked out by your doctor? Dont rush into sex, that is a special thing and for much later on in a relationship. Dont be intimate until both of your are happy with it.

take care

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007):

Well, at sixteen I would imagine that you are nearing completion of your puberty stage. It might not have grown that much but I think this just might be what your penis will be for you. BUT, stranger things have happened and you might have one growth spurt left to hit - so it's possible that your penis can still grow so more. But also be prepared for it to remain pretty much close to the size it is now.

And women will love you the same - large or small penis. You should probably wait until marriage for sex. That way you know your partner truly loves you and cares for you. But don't be too scared about your penis. In time you will learn how to please a woman with what you've got. And that's really ALL that matters for a man - pleasing the woman. Not how big is cock is.

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A male reader, Checkup Man United Kingdom +, writes (26 October 2007):

Checkup Man agony auntInstead of rushing into sex why don't you settle for an in between situation where you play a few games without 'going all the way' and having full intercourse? A few party games where your friends could come around with their girlfriends could be fun! How about a game of erotic musical chairs for a start! Friendly wrestling where your girlfriend always wins by pinning you to the floor? By the time you've had a fun evening you will feel that sex will happen in it's own time. You're only 16....enjoy life day by day! All the best to you!

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