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*eachForTheSky
writes:First- my ex n i talked a little the other day about hanging out soon, and made plans to go kayaking n hiking "if it was ok w/his girl" which he "hoped it was :)" When i asked if he thought she would be ok w/it or not, (we've only been broken up about 2 months) he said idk, she's pretty cool about stuff like that. we do our own thing but stay cool. but she can't really control me.Now 2 days ago he texts me out of the blue (we havent talked in a few weeks since the above mentioned conversation) n asks whats up. so we talk n he tells me: Him: I moved in w/his dad for now bc of family situation n I might break up w/my girlfriendMe:oh im sorry 2 hear that. let me know if u need anything, u know im here 4 uHim: which part (r u sorry about)? n thanksMe: I guess both. cuz family situations r never good, n obviously if ur thinking of breakin up w/ur girlfriend it must not be working 4 some reason which means u arent happy. so both.Him: Yea....I feel bad though. she is a really nice personMe: yea that sucks. but if its not working then sometimes there is nothing u can do. i think i have 2 break up w/my kind of bf 2.Him: Why? Explain!Me *explains* Him: yea its best to break it off b4 it goes any farther. Guys are tough he can handle itMe: so r u gonna tell me whats going wrong w/u n ur girl?Him: Noect. ect. he refuses to tell me y he was gonna break up w/his girlfriend. N he kept asking me how ive been n what im doing for the summer n then we had a play arguement about pointless things. Then it was late n he stopped responding prob bc he fell asleep. We haven't talked since. But his facebook relationship status today was updated from "in a relationship w/" to "single"so does it seem liike he was coming to talk to me just as a friend, like he's down n just needed somebody to talk to, or does it seem like he still has feelings for me? What should I do? Contact him via facebook or text (and say what?) or wait n see if he initiates contact first? Help!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 just send him a casual message either on facebook or phone him and just be a friend to him. suggest meeting up and see how it goes, don't just be all chummy though, let him know you still like him, flirt with him a bit. if he wants to be with you he'll respond, if not at least you will know where you stand with him
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reader, adamskidude +, writes (5 June 2011):
 Have you met his girlfriend? She sounds fictional. He's probably still harbouring feelings for you, and you telling him that you're breaking up with your boyfriend is like throwing him a bone.
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