A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy at a festival and we swapped msn's.He lives about 2 hours away and im going to uni next year so il be near him.Nothing happened between us, like not even kissed, but when we met we got on really well and we liked each other.The weeks after we both go home, he was really flirty and chatty with me online.Its been about 2 months now, and he didnt come online for about a week. and now its like he doesnt care about me at all.im not saying he shoudl eb flirty with me and be like 'i cant wait for you to move here' all the time but its like he doesnt even want to to talk to me anymore.Does this mean hes met somone else and doesnt give a dam about talkign to me anymore?Its just kind of upset me i dont expect him to like me but whys he being so unsociable with me and not even wanting to be friendly with me anymore and not make converstation :(
View related questions:
flirt, msn Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (14 October 2009):
Since we don't know what's going on in his life, we can't give you an answer as to why he isn't bothering to keep in touch with you.
Guys seem to do this sort of thing all the time. I know women do too, I don't know if women just do it less or if women are more vocal about letting everyone know since we tend to take it more to heart and are more emotional.
Possibilities could be: he met someone else, he's already off-and-on with someone else and when he met you it was off and now it's back on, he lost interest, he thinks you're not interested, he doesn't know what he wants, his grandmother died, his dog got ran over, his computer has a virus from looking at too much porn, he's trying to beat an internet addiction, and many other possibilities.
|
