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writes:I've had this guy friend for about 2 years now ever since we went to the same summer camp. We've talked on and off and have remained friends since then. He had a girlfriend last year when we saw each other every saturday at an extracurricular activity, but he always made a point to come see me and talk to me. Since then we've talked on and off and in August he broke up with his girlfriend (they dated for about 5 months). I decided not to participate in the activity that I saw him at every weekend and we started talking a little again. Last week however, the activity was hosted at my school and he asked if I would be there, I said yes and we talked for four days straight. Then I saw him that saturday and he spent the ENTIRE day with me. His ex-girlfriend was there also and then, the day after, he didn't call or text or say one word to me... was he using me to make her jealous?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2011): So I posted this question and no, I have not texted him since we talked the night after we saw each other. I figured since he always texts me first, he would. Should I text him?
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (12 December 2011):
 did you call or text him?
If not why not?
Why dont you just text him saying it was great seeing him. Just keep it friendly.
Sounds to me like you both had a great time and your both too nervous to make the next contact.
He may have been using you as a way to get his ex jealous. He knows your friends so spending the day together in front of her will achieve that (if she is receptive to jealousy).
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