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writes: Why she did this to me? I don't know what to do.There is a girl in my class in the college who lives near my house. We used to come together and I started liking her during that time. We use to share opinions and problems. I did this for a year, then I found out she liked my friend. After that I couldn't trust her and used to accuse her when she was with another boy or with my friend. Well she told me that her crush on my friend was non serious. We were friends but I used to fight with her sometimes. After few months, I told her how I was possessive about her. She then gave me a letter full of beautiful poems dedicated to me. I told her that night that I liked her. I expected an answer. She never gave me. Although she told that she would take special care of me and said she did not want relationship. She never answered yes or something like that.I was feeling very bad because she still was not close to me and was roaming freely with everybody. My studies were affected and I broke the friendship. After three months she said she wanted to talk to me. I refused. Once she invited to birthday. I refused. But now I am leaving college and I want to at least be with her in the final moments. But she refuses to be that. She says she hates me and will never forgive me just because I did all that to her. (Once I called her a bitch). I have even asked sorry.I don't know what to do.
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (18 February 2006):
 I know what you are to do, you are to get a grip of yourself and forget her, yes i know this wont be easy but your friendship with each other was good, you wanted to take that friendship a step further and make it a relationship, she has made it clear that as a friend she really liked you and felt very close to you but she was not either wanting or ready for a closer relationship.
You can try and talk to her and say you want to remain friends but my advice is just to let her go and grieve the loss of her friendship and any possibility of romanace and try and find someone new, someone who whats the same things from a relationship that you do.
You will find the love of your life you just have to go out and look and be patient, she is not the one!!
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