A
female
age
36-40,
*some
writes: Me and my man have been together for 7 years. He's been wanting to have a threesome years ago and now me and him want a threesome. I've been very curious about being with a female and I also want to have some crazy, fun, exciting sex. I asked my man if I were to suprise him with me and another female in lingerie on valentine's day would that make him happy and he said yes. So that's my plan. How do I approach a female and ask her? Is there anything else I should know? Is there anything I can do to get a good feeling how things will happen?
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reader, SillyB +, writes (5 January 2011):
Be careful what you wish for:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/threesome-gone-terribly-wrongmy-husband-is-in-love.html
A
male
reader, The Realist +, writes (3 January 2011):
You have to find someone who you can completly trust which usually means you know them a little bit and should be able to judge what their answer will be. And even if they say no it shouldn't be that big of a deal.
You should also think of everything you should expect to happen. Like can he have sex with her and by you starting this it's up to you to make sure that no one is left out when it is happening.
Just be staight forward with someone who you think may say yes and understand that it can't be someone who you will be jealous about. Also make sure she is ok with doing things with you two so you can experience a women, you don't want her to think that you two are just there to please your husband.
That's basically everything. Have fun with it.
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