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writes:I'm honestly hated, or atleast I think so, by someone I'm in love with- and that I'm not able to get over.Someone who was a bully to me heard that I was going to ask that one person who hates me, and at that time didn't, out and decided to play a 'small' prank on me.So the bully told me that the person I liked said yes; thus making me believe that we were going out.Happy to hear the news I told my friends, and a few more people. Then he started hating me, and after a few days, I found out that we were never going out in the first place.I tried writing notes to him, telling him that I was VERY sorry, but all he did was rip them up.That was last year, and his hate still continues, unless he has forgiven me and staring at me, barely talking to me, and avoiding me, are all ways of him liking me.--Thanks :) Tell me if you need more info, if that's possible. Reply to this Question
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reader, TallPerson +, writes (27 November 2009):
TallPerson is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks :)
I'm currently trying to sort it out with him.
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 I've been in your shoes in almost the exact same way! When I was at school, I really fancied this boy, and another girl in my class (don't know if you have 'rose day' where you are, but boys and girls can buy flowers for people they fancy) bought a rose and said it was from the boy I liked. I then went up to him and thanked him for the rose, and he then told me that it wasn't him who sent it! Needless to say, I was humiliated...and what was worse, it was a friend of mine who had played that prank..!
The person who was bullying you and who played that 'small' (right!) prank on you might have said something to the guy you like that has made him angry, I don't see how he could hate you otherwise!
You haven't done anything wrong! I think the best thing for you to do (as he isn't reading your notes and doesn't seem to want to get the true story) would be to just tell the truth to your friends (and you know gossip spreads like wildfire!) and the truth will get back to him that way.
Depending on what sort of person he is, he'll either apologise to you, or ignore you and if it's the latter, then he's not worth your time anyway.
Hope to hear some good news soon!
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reader, MammaDex  +, writes (19 November 2009):
Basically if you could provide more information it would be nice, like when and how you know him... ect... I guess with a little more info it may help me understand better and i could give you better judgement..
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