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writes:Unsure if we're compatible?!? He's a Gemini and I'm a Virgo. Both born 1981. Reply to this Question
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Wow I've been answering a lot of zodiac questions these days! Ok well I have a book called "The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need". By Joanna Martine Woolfolk.
VIRGO AND GEMINI: They are attracted to each other because of a mutual interest in intellectual ideas. Both have active minds, but the rapport ends there. Gemini's amorous nature is too impulsive and unstable to suit Virgo. Gemini dismisses Virgo as a stick-in-the-mud. Virgo considers Gemini irresponsible and adolescent. Gemini needs freedom to pursue its varied interests. Virgo resents this, and will nag and try to dominate. Gemini will soon stray to other lovers.
Once again, it can be wrong if the person is not like their sign. I am a cancer and definitely like a cancer. My boyfriend is an aquarius and nothing like one, which is good because it says we won't make it either. Then again it could be exactly as both of you are. Good luck.
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reader, lovesalias +, writes (23 January 2009):
 you really should look at the way you and he feel together, how you treat one another to find out your compatability. To use a sun sign to find out your compatability is really not the best because there are other factors like the moon sign the rising sign, numerology that affect the way a person is.
What you find in the signs of another is the characteristics so do some research on his sign...check out his characteristics to see if they are things you can live with but remember not everyone has the traits they are supposed to because like I said there are other factors that affect a persons personality including upbringing and association. Good Luck! I hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): You really can't tell by comparing your astrological signs!
More to the point is: how long have you been dating? Do you enjoy one another's company? Do you share at least some similar interests, such as volleyball or bowling, like the same kinds of music, books, etc.? Have you met his friends/family and if so, were they friendly and welcoming?
When you think about what you want for the future - marriage, one child, or no kids, where you want to live, and so on, are you "on the same page"? Or are you both agreed you want/don't want to be a couple for the long term without getting married?
What are your views on religion/spirituality? Or do you both find you have no beliefs? Can you talk about all the above easily, or are you the talkative type while he is the "strong silent" one?
What about jobs/careers? What are your ambitions and plans for your live(s)?
These, and many more such are all important things to consider when determining compatibility! Not only that, but it takes TIME: months, maybe a year or two, spent together (not necessarily living together, although you might end up doing so) before you can begin to get a sense of whether you get along well enough to be happy together for the long term.
Sorry, no easy answers!
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