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*teph-mcallister
writes:hey there guys.. I've got a problem which is a tad sentitive.Well I'm 17 and I've been straight up until about 18 or so months ago.. where this belgian lad captured my heart. I've fallen deeply in love with him and yes I'm now fully gay in the sense that I don't look at woman and find them sexually attractive.. but I do with guys.Anyway me and my bf are planning 2 have sex sometime soon.. and the thing is he's been gay a lot longer than I and has had sex with a guy before, so he knows what he's doing and stuff.. if that makes sense. I've had sex with girls before but never with guys, and to be honest am clueless about how or what positions etc.Please help me out here cos I love him and am rather embarrassed to say anything to him and ask him how etc..all advice, I'm grateful for.. thanksStephen McAllisterxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2009): Dont worry to much but you do need to talk to him about this. I remember the first time with my partner, i was so nervous about actually doing anything i kept putting it off. Eventually we talked and he was so understanding. Took things very slowly with me with which just heightened the pleasure and time didnt fly by the first time. Its not just in out and thankyou there is so much more to gay sex and i'm sure if your partner is caring he will be only to happy to show you.
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reader, im_a_dummy  +, writes (24 January 2009):
 i dont know much about gay sex, because i am a girl and i have never had it in the ass, but i do know there is sometimes blood, and therefore a condom is usually a better idea, to help it slide in better (or use lube) and to prevent STD's.
have funn!!!
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (24 January 2009):
 oral sex is the best bet to begin with as its easy to get it good. anal sex is more difficult to perfect though can be wayyy better but also painfull and pointless(if you are being poked by an inconsiderate sort).
making muscles, that are not meant to dilate upon contact with outside stimulus, open takes a lot of skill on how to push it right to not make it clench up. you need to penetrate the anus gently with one finger and a lot of lube. now the outer schfincter or ring maybe relaxed but the inner one is not so easy. it needs to believe that the pressure from inside the rectum is one moving out not in. so when your finger is inside try to massage the inner walls with a soft touch towards the exit. dont rush this at all it may happen quickly or take ages but try to get in too fast and it may clench too tight to be comfortable at all at any point for the duration of the time.
all that is just to gain entry to the anus before you can attempt to produce a good effect with your penis (hint aim towards the front side of your partner towards their bladder when you penetrate them as you will be on target with the prostate(its very near the entrance).
but oral sex is much easier to do properly and to a high standard.
banjo string! the connecting tissure than joins the top of your helmet to your penis shaft. stroke your tongue down this bit of skin when you begin to take his penis in your mouth. to do this you may have to peel his foreskin down but gentle sucking (try and build saliva before as it makes things fell softer and nicer) and rolling his foreskin with your lips should work while you pulls the shaft in co-ordinating timing. lots of saliva and if he is a big width try to use your lips to stop your teeth from contact with his helmet as it just isn't pleasant.
good luck there is way more but have fun
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