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female
age
36-40,
*menthyst3356
writes:Dear Cupid, I met this amazing guy almost a year ago, we both were struggling with good friends that had moved away for college. We started dating almost immediately after we met and everything was fine until he got demoted at his job. I was going through my mother's cancer at the time and didn't notice him becoming quiet. After two weeks I came out of the funk I was in and noticed him texting another woman a lot. He told me that she was in a class of his and she was going through a lot. After couple fights I finally took the initiative to text this other woman and ask if I could help her. We became good friends, after this I started to trust him more. I have never had a bf which made a lot of female friends. Then I found out from the girl from his class that another of his female friends from that class wanted him to go to Victoria secret with her. I found out later that he has gone shopping with this female friend and then he told me that he went with another an hour away to go to a store and they went to her grandparent's home. I have met his guy friends and I've only met his female friend because we became friends. I asked him to tell me when he is going to go out alone with another female friend and he thinks it's weird to do so. He always tells me that he is going out with one of his guy friends. We are at the point in our relationship where we would move in together if we were financially stable, but with both of us in college living at our parents homes it just isn't the time. I am trying to deal with my jealousy alone, because it just causes a fight if I say anything. Last night another text from a random girl I don't even know about. It's starting to get hard to even imagine a life together. Can I get some insight?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 June 2010):
If they're just friends, then why is he lying? I'm not sure this is as clear cut as it seems. I'd like to think he's not cheating. But if they're just friends, then I don't understand why he's lying. Maybe there is more going on here. He should not be lying. If he is, it means that he is building a relationship upon a lie, and that's something you don't need in your life.
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